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A Reality Cooking Show for Homeschool Moms

As I run back and forth between a sick child, another child who’s bored and wants to do anything she can to make a mess and get my attention, and yet another child who needs help with her school work, I turn on the TV (which we never ever do during the day, but I’m desperate for the “company” of another adult for just a few minutes!) to my favorite channel–Food Network. My thinking is that I can concentrate on something else for a few minutes. Something I enjoy watching. Something I would enjoy doing if I ever had time to do more than put together one of the 5 meals we live on because I can make them from memory at the same time I’m grading math papers, sweeping the floor, reminding the kids not to touch the hot stove, and keeping the cats off the counter while yelling at the dog not to chase the cats! Ever been there and done that? I imagine you have if you’re a homeschooling mom and wife like I am!

 

 

Anyway, as I watched Rachael Ray cooking up one of her “30 Minute Meals,” I noticed something. I noticed that she’s all by herself in the kitchen! No kids hanging on her legs or crying or fussing about being hungry! No cats on the counter and dogs chasing cats! No hubby walking in the door in the middle of a chaotic mess wondering what she’s been doing all day! No wonder she can make beautiful yummy meals in 30 minutes! I could too in her situation. And she doesn’t even have to do the dishes!

So here’s what I’m thinking. (Ok, I’m mostly kidding, but wouldn’t it be a great idea if someone would actually do it?!) I’m thinking that the folks at Food Network need to make a reality cooking show for homeschool moms! Wouldn’t that be great?! And we could all take turns starring in the show because we’re all experts, right? In fact, I think we could teach those Food Network stars a thing or two about cooking! Or better yet, we could let the star of the show borrow our children for an episode or two! Think they could handle it? Think any food would actually get cooked? Me neither, but it sure would be fun to watch!

Ok, to be serious, I don’t think we are ever going to see that show on Food Network (or anywhere else for that matter). But we do sometimes compare ourselves to those folks on TV, don’t we? Our kitchens may never look that clean and organized, our houses may never be dust-free and completely clean, our meals may not be beautiful (but at least they’re usually edible), but that’s ok! Because we homeschool, we have kids at home all the time helping us make messes. We don’t have the kitchen to ourselves to cook in peace and quiet, chatting only with a TV audience. We have husbands who come home from work tired and ready for dinner. And you know what? I wouldn’t trade it for that beautiful, quiet, clean kitchen. I wouldn’t trade it for the gourmet meals that look so beautiful. I wouldn’t trade my life as a homeschooling mom and wife for any of those things!

One day your kitchen (and the rest of the house) will stay clean because there won’t be children there to mess it up. One day, you’ll be able to make those beautiful gourmet meals because you’ll get to choose what you want to eat instead of feeding a house full of picky children. One day those things will happen, and that’s ok! I think God intends for us to enjoy every age and stage of our lives. But for now, I choose to enjoy having my children at home. I choose to enjoy homeschooling them, enjoy cooking with them, and even enjoy cleaning the kitchen with them. (Ok, well, so maybe we don’t really enjoy cleaning the kitchen…) In other words, I choose to enjoy living real life as a homeschool mom and wife! How about you?

Update: It’s hard to believe it, but I wrote this article 5 years ago when my children were 17, 16, and 10. Now they’re 22, 21, and 15. The older two have graduated from our homeschool, and I’m only homeschooling my last child who is finishing 9th grade. I have to admit that it’s still hard to keep the kitchen clean because my kids still love to make messes and still don’t love helping clean them up. But now I truly do treasure each day because I know I won’t have them all under my roof much longer.

So to you moms who feel like your little ones will be little forever and you’ll never be alone in the kitchen (or the bathroom…), I’m here to tell you that it will happen sooner than you can believe! So enjoy your life and your family now even on the hard days. Tomorrow they’ll be grown.

About the author

Wendy

Wendy is one of the owners of Hip Homeschool Moms. She married her high school sweetheart, Scott, 28 years ago, and they live in the South with their three children. Hannah, age 23, has autism and was the first homeschool graduate in the family. Noah, age 22, was the second homeschool graduate. Mary Grace, age 16, is the remaining homeschool student. Wendy loves working out and teaching Training for Warriors classes at her local gym. She also enjoys learning along with her family, educational travel, reading, and writing, and she attempts to grow an herb garden every summer with limited success.

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  • Haha, so true! I have said the same thing about those exercise videos I have on while doing yoga/pilates. Relax? Focus on breathing? I would like to see them complete a routine with a kid jumping on my back one minute and wiggling to position herself under me so that every time I bend over and lower my head she is there with a goofy smile on her face. Of course I wouldn’t trade it for anything. 🙂

    • I agree! Nearly everything is more complicated (AKA harder) to do with children around, but they’re worth it! 🙂 And we need not ever worry about being bored!

  • I would love to see a show like that! So not happening, lol! But I cheat a bit like they do. I prep my dinner meats for the week on Sundays (or at least I try to). Then it’s just put in the over or the crockpot and go.

    • Nita, I go through stages where I’m organized enough to do that, and other times I don’t. It’s definitely easier when I prepare ahead of time! And aren’t crock pots the greatest!? Thanks for your comment.

  • Wow, that would be a great idea! But I don’t think any moms would actually watch it because we would be tired of our own chaos to watch someone else’s LOL

    • Katie, you may be right! Although I think I might watch it just to see someone else so I don’t feel all alone. 😉 More likely, though, I’d do exactly what you said and turn it off because I couldn’t stand chaos on TV as well as in real life!

  • LOL! I absolutely “second” each notion and idea you’ve stated for Mrs. Ray above! And, its about time someone said it LOL (Mostly joking too lol)! Seriously, thank you for the relating, it’s comforting to read that other Moms experience the same longing for “Adult-Talk” that I have in the past. In fact, my Mother says I talk too much! My response is clearly time and time again, “I NEVER get to talk freely to other Adults! when I have the chance I take full granted of the opportunity! ( So shush up and listen! )” RIGHT?! I totally empathize ;D
    This post reminds me of one of my own, if you ever have a few mins, take a read — at least skim through the photos! They’re hilarious if no time for anything else: http://j9sopinion.com/2013/05/30/grocery-line-up-lessons/
    Many Thanks Again,
    Jeanine H
    Canada

    • Jeanine, you are definitely not alone! Even though my kids are older now (two teens and a 10-year-old), I still crave some adult conversation now and then! In fact, my twin sis and her kids (who also homeschool) come over once a week, and I feel like we cram a week’s worth of conversation into that one day each week! And I promise I would never tell you that you talk too much! 😉

  • …not to mention the fact that someone has done half the prepping…their measuring spoons are NEVER in the dishwasher dirty, they don’t have to dig for the right bowl, only to have all the pots fall out onto their foot, and don’t even get me started on who washes the dishes!

  • I agree with you guys! I love my kids and I know I will miss them when they grow up and move out (but hopefully not TOO far away!), but yes, some days are challenging and I feel so disorganized and frazzled! I try to remember to keep it fun while also training them to grow up and be independent. I have found that music is a great way to lighten the mood without increasing the “hyperactive” factor too much! We play music when the toddler is fussy and I’m getting the last of supper ready or while folding laundry, etc. Just thought some of y’all might like to know so you can try it out! It won’t clean your kitchen or get or organize your Tupperware, but it does seem to make the process a little more pleasant!

    • Great idea! I love to listen to music too, and so do my kids. I’ve never really thought about using it to help lighten the mood while we work, though. I’ll have to try that! Thanks for sharing your idea. 🙂

  • Yeeaaaah….I used to ALWAYS say I’d cook much more if I had the magical cabinets that took all my dirty dishes, poof cleaned them, poof put them away along with the magical grocery store that poof put all the food in my fridge! We keep house hunting, but so far I haven’t found those magical cabinets.

    • Elly, if you ever find them, please be sure to come back and let all of us know! Until then, I’ll be right there with ya washing those dishes… 😉

  • The idea is fabulous. Just fabulous. I would watch a show like that. You should submit the idea for that segment to the CHEW. Have you seen that show? I could totally see them doing that!

    • No, I haven’t seen that, Darcy! Tell me about it. 🙂 Glad you like the idea! We could make it required viewing for those who are considering having children! 😉

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